Its Not About Your Dom

In the world of BDSM, many people assume that the power dynamic between a Dom and sub is inherently unequal. While it's true that the roles may not be identical in terms of responsibilities and expectations, it doesn't mean that both parties shouldn't reap equal benefits from their relationship.

As someone who identifies as a Romantic Dominant, I believe that ensuring both myself and my sub receive equal benefits is crucial to a healthy and fulfilling dynamic. This can manifest in various ways, such as shared domestic duties, emotional support, and physical intimacy. The key is finding ways to create balance and mutual satisfaction within the relationship.

One common misconception about BDSM relationships is that they are inherently unequal or even abusive. However, this couldn't be further from the truth. A healthy Dom/sub dynamic is built on trust, communication, and respect – not power struggles or exploitation.

So, how can you tell if you're in a relationship with a Fake Dom? Here are some signs to look out for:

* Your thoughts and feelings are dismissed as irrelevant.

* You feel like you're getting significantly less benefits from the dynamic than your partner does.

* You constantly need to prove yourself to maintain their approval.

If you're experiencing any of these symptoms, it's likely a sign that you're in an emotionally abusive relationship. It's crucial to recognize these red flags and take steps to prioritize your own well-being.

As a sub in such a dynamic, you may find yourself asking questions like:

* Is my Dominant focused solely on their own pleasure, without consideration for mine?

* Do I feel guilty or anxious when I don't meet their expectations?

* Am I forced to engage in activities that bring me no joy?

If you're answering 'yes' to any of these questions, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship and prioritize your own needs. Remember, a healthy BDSM dynamic is built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication – not control or exploitation.

In conclusion, being in a relationship with a Fake Dom can be emotionally draining and toxic. By recognizing the signs and prioritizing your own well-being, you can take steps towards creating a healthier and more fulfilling dynamic.

Its not about your dom